> Yeah times are changing, I know that, more on this in a few days ;)

What's up? Some girl is sending you videos of her "I think about you" sessions? :)

> But still,
> even girls who are straight forward and will ask to fuck them will tell you that
> they like it when a guy is sure of himself and make a move first.

True. That's why one should never be scared of them. Well, unless they send you the mentioned videos.

> And yeah, about the I love you thingy, ok it might not be the best thing to say.
> Take it like an example of what you could say that won't get your pretty faced
> hand slapped. I mean "wtf girl, you lick my face then you don't want me to lick
> your pussy? Fucking bitch, get on your knees and suck my cock before I get
> angry" isn't the right thing to do :)

Ok, let's say there are softer shades of grey to try :)

Being honest about one's feelings isn't that bad, it will (almost) never get your face slapped, and you'll feel great about yourself. But here too, just don't rush. You may be sincere about an "I love you", but she could be not sure about feeling the same, and this could make her go berserk. The difficult part is going as far as she can handle, and not too far. Sometimes you have to hold back, sometimes you may take the risk.

> But yeah, you can always find fuck friends if all you want is sex. I don't know
> about elsewhere, let's say like in the us, but here it's almost like as if
> everybody has one. You have sex, that's it, that's all. If the girls starts
> feeling attached to you, you dump her. A little cruel, but lots of people do it
> over here.

Works the other way around, too. I know girls dumping f.friends what were becoming pussies :P Here too, I think it's all about being honest. If a boy and a girl agree on this sex-only relationship, one shouldn't feel cruel if the other breaks the agreement. It happened, it CAN happen because getting fond of people is easy, but nobody should be forced to do anything. It's not cruel, instead it will make things less difficult in the long run. I wouldn't feel like heartlessly fucking a girl which loves me, but maybe it's just me.

> Bah and what the hell, if you want sex so badly, get a prostitute, female
> preferably. Escorts are expensive, but they give a great service.

And great STDs as well, if you make a poor choice.