> You have a son who is 16 years old, screwing up in continuation school (D's and
> F's), plays in a band, but won't even pick up his own equipment, doesn't pick up
> after himself, anywhere, doesn't shower but once every 2 weeks, lies about
> everything, smokes weed, and is drunk regularly after continuation school (ends
> at noon). Now the question. What would you do with your kid in this situation?
> I personally think this father is a terrible one. He does not discipline his
> son at all. He is not playing parent, he is playing friend. Not good. I would
> not let him even in my home if he continued to act that way, if he is so smart,
> and knows the way of the world, I'd let him go do it, just not under my roof.
>

He needs a positive role model and must realize the consequences of his own actions