He guys. Haven't been here for a few weeks. Through the years I come and go. I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful women - my soulmate. I have 3 wonderful kids. At the beginning of this year I burried myself in work (started a company). I thought that if I could complete this one project, I could put our family ahead financially. While it might have done that, about two weeks ago, I learned that my wife has lost here love for me. She met a guy at her work and they have grown very close. I don't think she has cheated on me, but she does love him. Boy has this really put things in perspective for me. I love her more than anything - I am heartbroken. I left my 9-5 job at IBM last week so that I can focus on this. Everyday I focus on her and my kids. I am doing everything I can to win her back. I consider myself a christian. I found god years ago but fell away since I thought I didn't need him. Since this has started, he brought me to my knees. I am not preeching to you about finding god. I pray everyday. Since this started, I would say that things are getting better. She is staying at home and even sleeps in my bed with me. We spent the day together. It was awesome. It's been so rough, I sometimes wish I could just leave. The though of her and this other guy makes my stomach ache. She will not admitt to this guy - guess she thinks it will hurt me too much. I don't know who he is but I know she works with him and he is married with 3 kids. What an asshole. Not only is he beening unfaithful and destroying his marriage, but he is trying to destroy ours also. I would love to find him. I wouldn't hurt him, but I bet his wife would love to know about all of this. I consider myself a lucky guy. None of my friends or close family members have every passed away. I have never had a girl break my heart. I have to say this is the worst pain I have ever experienced. I have found something so important that I will never stop fighting for it. She is the one. I know that.