to all BBWs who whine about perceptions..... (everywhere)
I have gotten really tired of "BBWs" who post on here and bitch about the fact that they are judged because of their size.... DUH!! Being overweight is an unavoidable genetic trait for only a tiny fraction of the population. What's my point? If you're overweight then it is because of your LIFESTYLE CHOICES!
Would you not judge a man who came up and asked for a date if he was missing half his teeth, reeked of booze, and hadn't had a hair cut or shave in a couple of months? Of course you would! Why? Because he chooses to live his life in a manner you don't find attractive, healthy, or sensible. He wasn't born that way, he let himself become that.
If you think men on here are too judgmental because they look at you and see an unhealthy, overweight woman then perhaps you should get a clue. Obesity and obesity related diseases and health problems are the #1 cause of death in this country. Being overweight puts a tremendous amount of stress on your body. It also puts a strain on our healthcare system, shortens life expectancy, and has not only physical but psychological affects on our society.
Get your asses up out of your chairs every now and then, STOP EATING SO MUCH, and try to live a little more healthy. Not only will you get more attention from the men you are writing craigslist ads for now, but you will have more energy, be happier, and probably save a lot of money.
If you're an overweight person who doesn't bitch about being judged (because you just really don't care), fine, my post can be ignored. But if you are one of those women who try and make us guys feel like assholes because we judge you based on what you show us... then button your lips and re-evaluate why you hold those opinions. Especially if you put ANY dating requirements in your ad (i.e. must have all your teeth, must not smoke, must be tall, must have a job, etc), because you're doing exactly what you're whining about....