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SubjectIs it bad form to unfriend someone on Facebook that died? new Reply to this message
Posted byCereal Killer
Posted on08/26/10 04:05 PM



Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't want to be cold blooded either.




Subjectdo you still send emails to dead people? new Reply to this message
Posted bySilentAce
Posted on08/26/10 05:09 PM



Or go out to lunch with them? Pretty sure your safe.

> Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> want to be cold blooded either.
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>



SubjectRe: Is it bad form to unfriend someone on Facebook that died? new Reply to this message
Posted byVmprHntrD
Posted on08/26/10 05:36 PM



> Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> want to be cold blooded either.
>
>
I suppose for your own need, make a rest in piece post saying that you wish to unfriend the departed as it makes it so you can move on and not swell on the loss being stuck in an upset state or some stuff. Then remove.



Billy Connolly - Statement of the Century
"If women are so bloody perfect at multitasking, how come they can't have a headache and sex at the same time ?"


SubjectRe: do you still send emails to dead people? new Reply to this message
Posted byCereal Killer
Posted on08/26/10 05:52 PM



The page was setup so that if someone posts on their wall, their friends can see it. Basically people are putting up their goodbyes, poems, you name it. I'll be the first to admit I never got the mourning process. But for some reason I'm irritated that these wonderful things are being posted, and that person is never going to see it. I'm already not dealing with it well, and my brain keeps drifting to all these stupid conclusions.

I suppose I can hide it for now. Ultimately I shouldn't be fucking around on the internet during work breaks anyway.

> Or go out to lunch with them? Pretty sure your safe.
>
> > Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> > want to be cold blooded either.
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> >
>





SubjectAh thats a perfectly good thought about something so.... Deleted! -nt- new Reply to this message
Posted bySilentAce
Posted on08/26/10 06:27 PM



> The page was setup so that if someone posts on their wall, their friends can see
> it. Basically people are putting up their goodbyes, poems, you name it. I'll
> be the first to admit I never got the mourning process. But for some reason I'm
> irritated that these wonderful things are being posted, and that person is never
> going to see it. I'm already not dealing with it well, and my brain keeps
> drifting to all these stupid conclusions.
>
> I suppose I can hide it for now. Ultimately I shouldn't be fucking around on
> the internet during work breaks anyway.
>
> > Or go out to lunch with them? Pretty sure your safe.
> >
> > > Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> > > want to be cold blooded either.
> > >
> > >
> >
>
>
>



SubjectAnti-zombie fucker -nt- Reply to this message
Posted byMarv
Posted on08/26/10 07:13 PM



> Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> want to be cold blooded either.
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>





SubjectI agree, that's the best way to go about it. NT new Reply to this message
Posted byDeath Knight
Posted on08/27/10 05:18 AM



> > Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> > want to be cold blooded either.
> >
> >
> I suppose for your own need, make a rest in piece post saying that you wish to
> unfriend the departed as it makes it so you can move on and not swell on the
> loss being stuck in an upset state or some stuff. Then remove.
>
>
>
> Billy Connolly - Statement of the Century
> "If women are so bloody perfect at multitasking, how come they can't have a
> headache and sex at the same time ?"
>


All work and no play makes me..., well, you know the rest.


SubjectRe: Is it bad form to unfriend someone on Facebook that died? new Reply to this message
Posted bycraterface
Posted on08/27/10 04:18 PM



I only did that once, but only because there was so much controversy surrounding her death and a lot of fights back and forth and shit like that. I felt bad but got over it, even though I lost another friend in the process. Meh, the friend was a bitch anyways.

I actually just lost a friend to hanging on Sunday and the memorial service was yesterday. :( She had me on a limited profile for some reason so I can't see nor post to her wall but I can see pictures and comment on them. It's weird but I'm saddened that I didn't get an online chance to say goodbye. The minster read a bunch of wall posts yesterday and I'm sad that I couldn't be a part of that. :(

> Being reminded all the time isn't helping the moving on process, but I don't
> want to be cold blooded either.
>
>





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